John 13:36-38 Simon Peter said to him, “Lord, where are you going?” Jesus answered him, “Where I am going you cannot follow me now, but you will follow afterward.” Peter said to him, “Lord, why can I not follow you now? I will lay down my life for you.” Jesus answered, “Will you lay down your life for me? Truly, truly, I say to you, the rooster will not crow till you have denied me three times.” (ESV)
There are two types of people in the world: There are the dependable, cautious, conservative people who fill up their gas tanks when they are half empty (or half full, depending on your point of view), and there are the wild-eyed, ride-or-die adrenaline junkies who will drive with that low fuel light on the dashboard blazing like a beacon. Full disclosure: I am one of the latter. I know my car, and I know how far it can get on a gallon of gas. Sure, there have been a couple of close calls, but I take pride in the fact that I’ve never run out of gas before getting to a gas station. (There was a moment when it sputtered out as I pulled up to the gas pump, but I still made it!)
Last year, my wife and I took a road trip to Glacier National Park in Montana. At one point we were crossing Montana and we passed a gas station. I looked at the fuel gauge, and there was still almost a third of a tank left. I didn’t stop — I felt confident I’d find another gas station before it got too low. There was not another gas station, nor cell signal, for a LONG time! At one point I thought a gas station would be at the next GPS turning point, only to discover there was nothing there. I had to stop, empty my generator and pour it into my car’s gas tank to squeak into the next possible gas station. Pro tip: If you ever drive across Montana and you pass a gas station and you have a half a tank or less, fill up!
Have you ever been overconfident about something, only to be humbled later? If you’ve been a Christian for years, it’s easy to feel overconfident about the strength of our relationship with Jesus and our Father in Heaven, only for a challenge or a difficult situation to knock our feet out from under us. Peter was no stranger to this kind of overconfidence. By the time we get to the last supper, Peter walked with Jesus for three years. He was the one who first claimed Jesus to be the Son of God. He was Jesus’s right-hand man. He was excited about Jesus’s ministry and being part of it.
In today’s passage, Jesus forewarns Peter of his impending denial. Jesus, aware of Peter's zeal and confidence, gently reveals Peter's future actions, paving the way for Peter's spiritual growth and humility. The narrative unfolds as Peter, filled with assurance, ardently expresses his willingness to lay down his life for Jesus. Jesus, however, predicts that Peter will deny Him not once, but thrice before the rooster crows.
Can you imagine Peter’s shock and disbelief? In his mind, what Jesus describes is treachery. He would NEVER do such a thing! Peter's overconfidence stems from his deep love for Jesus and his desire to prove his loyalty. He genuinely believes in his ability to withstand any challenge for the sake of his beloved Master. However, Jesus sees beyond this bravado, understanding the weakness of human flesh and the trials that lie ahead. This passage is a sobering reminder that any of us can fall prey to overconfidence and fail in crucial moments. Thankfully, there are ways we can avoid the overconfidence trap.
Start by recognizing that you ARE weak. You know stories about people who seemed to have everything together, only to have their lives crash and burn due to a crisis of faith. These situations often occur because of pride and overconfidence. Thinking things like, “I would never do that” is simply lying to yourself and opening yourself up for the enemy to find your weakness … and exploit it. In the right situation, any of us can fall if we are overconfident in our own strength.
Prayer fosters a humble heart by acknowledging our dependence on God. Regularly reflecting on our limitations and seeking God's guidance helps us maintain a realistic understanding of our capabilities. Humility enables us to recognize that our strength comes from God, not from our own abilities.
Surrounding ourselves with a community of fellow believers who hold us accountable can provide a check against overconfidence. Sharing our struggles, doubts and triumphs with trusted friends allows us to receive constructive feedback and gain perspective on our actions.
Studying the Bible and immersing ourselves in the stories of faithful individuals, including their successes and failures, provides valuable insights. Learning from the triumphs and mistakes of biblical figures helps us grasp the consequences of overconfidence and the necessity of placing our trust in God. If you need a starting point, check out the rest of Peter’s story, and check out Sampson’s story in the Old Testament book of Judges.
Embracing constructive criticism and being open to correction allows us to learn from our mistakes and grow in faith. When we fall, acknowledging our failures and seeking forgiveness from God and others demonstrates a humble heart, facilitating spiritual growth and resilience.
Peter’s story doesn’t end in failure — it ends in REDEMPTION. Peter repents, and he becomes one of the early Church’s most influential patriarchs. May we, like Peter, learn from our moments of overconfidence, recognizing our dependence on God and striving to grow in humility. Through a humble and realistic assessment of ourselves and a deep reliance on God's grace, we can navigate the challenges of life with wisdom and discernment, avoiding the perilous trap of overconfidence.
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